Awhi Ngā Mātua is a community where parents of intellectually disabled, neurodivergent and medically fragile tamariki can connect and learn.
In te reo Māori, Awhi Ngā Mātua means parents hugging/embracing.
We help whānau and carers by
- Creating parent-focused information, articles and resources to help you navigate the disability journey
- Providing opportunities to connect with other parents on our social communities
- Building agency and resilience among parents so you can advocate for your whānau.
Please note: As many of our articles are community generated, they are not a substitute for clinical, legal, or professional advice. Where appropriate, you should always consult a qualified professional to discuss your specific situation.
Awhi's history

Awhi Ngā Mātua was founded by parent and advocate Elizabeth Goodwin, following research she undertook in 2018.
To better understand the experiences of parents of intellectually disabled children, Elizabeth interviewed 80 families around Aotearoa, and held a number of sessions with parents in Horowhenua and Manawatū. She discovered common practical concerns for parents as well as shared challenges around social isolation, wellbeing, and agency. When asked what would make the biggest difference, parents said they wanted an online place where everyone could connect with each other and learn.
Shortly after, Awhi Ngā Mātua was created.
Our articles and resources are developed by parent contributors and supported by evidence-based resources and insights from IHC Library, one of Australasia's largest intellectual disability libraries.
If you'd like to contribute to Awhi and share your story or tips, please get in touch.
Awhi Ngā Mātua values
We expect parents in our community to respect our values so that Awhi remains a safe space for everyone.
- Belonging – We welcome parents and whānau of diverse cultures, backgrounds and experiences. We embrace our differences and understand that everyone’s situation is unique.
- Collaboration – We work with individuals and organisations to achieve our shared vision for our tamariki. We are stronger united.
- Frankness – We encourage openness and honesty. Awhi is a place where parents can be forthright and authentic in sharing their experiences. Their views are their own.
- Manaakitanga – We treat everyone in the community with respect, generosity and an open heart.
- Optimism – We promote positivity and hope. We look for solutions to the challenges we face and are focused on creating a brighter future for all disability experiences.
- Tino Rangatiratanga – We lift parents up, affirm their mana and help them to build agency and autonomy.
IHC Library support

Many of our articles include research support from our friends at the IHC Library, which has a huge range of resources on intellectual disability, autism and other developmental disabilities. It is free to use to anyone living in New Zealand including families, teachers, students, researchers and professionals.
Books and resources can be accessed online, or sent to you free of charge, or if you're in Wellington you can even visit the library on Level 14, 57 Willis Street.
